How to Unblock Messages on Your Phone or Computer 📱

If you've blocked someone's messages—or suspect you have—getting unblocked is usually a straightforward process. The exact steps depend on your device type and which messaging app or service you're using. This guide walks you through the main platforms and explains what happens when you unblock someone.

Understanding Message Blocking

Message blocking prevents a specific contact from reaching you via text, call, or in-app messages. When you block someone, they typically can't see that you've read their messages, and they may not receive delivery confirmations. Depending on the platform, they might not even know they're blocked—or they might receive a notification.

Unblocking reverses this restriction, allowing the person to contact you again normally.

How to Unblock Messages on iPhone 📲

On iPhone, blocked contacts are managed through the Settings app or directly within the Messages and Phone apps.

Via Settings:

  • Open Settings → Phone (or Messages)
  • Scroll to Blocked Contacts or Blocked Messages
  • Find the contact and tap Edit, then Unblock

Via Messages or Phone app:

  • Open the relevant app
  • Find the conversation or contact
  • Swipe left (or long-press) on the conversation
  • Select Unblock from the options that appear

Once unblocked, the person can text or call you normally, though any messages sent while they were blocked won't be delivered retroactively.

Unblocking on Android Devices

Android varies slightly by manufacturer (Samsung, Google Pixel, etc.) and your default messaging app.

For SMS/text messages:

  • Open your Messages app or Phone app
  • Tap the Menu (three dots)
  • Select Blocked contacts or Blocked numbers
  • Find the contact and tap Unblock

For specific messaging apps (WhatsApp, Facebook Messenger, etc.):

  • Open the app
  • Go to Settings or Privacy
  • Find Blocked contacts or Blocked users
  • Select the person and tap Unblock

Changes take effect immediately on Android.

Unblocking in Popular Messaging Apps

WhatsApp

  • Open the app and go to Settings → Privacy → Blocked contacts
  • Tap the contact and select Unblock

Facebook Messenger

  • Tap your Profile icon
  • Go to People → Blocked
  • Find the person and tap Unblock

iMessage (Apple's service)

  • Follow the iPhone instructions above; unblocking in Messages Settings applies to iMessage specifically

Email Services

If you've blocked emails from someone:

  • Gmail: Open an email from them, click the three dots, and select Unblock
  • Outlook: Go to Settings → Mail → Junk email → Blocked senders → remove the contact

What Happens After You Unblock Someone

Once you unblock a contact, they regain full access to contact you. They'll be able to:

  • Send you text messages and see delivery confirmations
  • Call you
  • See your online status (if the app displays it)
  • Send app-specific messages (WhatsApp, Messenger, etc.)

Important: Messages they sent while blocked won't appear in your inbox retroactively. Many platforms don't preserve blocked messages, so you won't see a backlog of their attempts to reach you.

Factors That Affect Your Decision to Unblock

Your choice to unblock someone depends on your specific circumstances:

  • Why you blocked them — Whether the issue has been resolved
  • Your comfort level — Whether you're ready to communicate again
  • The platform — Some apps allow partial unblocking (e.g., you might unblock their calls but keep them muted)
  • Your privacy settings — You may unblock someone but adjust privacy controls so they can still contact you without seeing your status or read receipts

Key Differences Across Platforms

PlatformBlocks SMS/Calls?Blocks App Messages?Retroactive Messages Visible?
iPhone (native)YesYes (iMessage)No
Android (native)YesApp-dependentNo
WhatsAppNo*YesNo
Facebook MessengerNo*YesNo
EmailNo (routing to spam)Effectively yesYes (in spam folder)

*These apps don't block calls or SMS—only in-app communication.

Before You Unblock: Consider These Questions

  • Is the situation resolved? Unblocking doesn't change past issues; make sure you're ready.
  • Do you want notifications from them? Some apps let you unblock but mute notifications.
  • Should you adjust privacy settings first? You might unblock but prevent them from seeing your online status or read receipts.
  • Will you need documentation? If the blocking was related to a boundary issue, consider whether you need to keep records.

When You Might Want Professional Help

If you've blocked someone due to harassment, threats, or safety concerns, unblocking may not be the right choice—regardless of technical ease. In those cases, consider speaking with a counselor, trusted advisor, or legal professional before reinstating contact.

Unblocking is reversible, so if you unblock someone and realize it was premature, you can block them again using the same steps.